PROFESSIONAL SELF PLEASURE GURU

Celebrating 19 years: sparking curiosity, inspiring laughter, and empowering pleasure confidently.

I’m Alexandra—by day, I rep Bodispa B2B in Montréal and help bring Nobü Toys to life. By night, this site is my playground for handpicked faves, bestsellers, and no-filter advice.

The world needs more orgasms, not more problems.

Learn More About Me

The Purrsonal Journey: Sex, Self & Power — my unfiltered space for sex, self & power. From toys to self-love, here’s the pleasure you deserve. It’s my bridge between personal pleasure and professional passion. As a sales rep in sexual wellness, I’ve learned that when people and retailers embrace the power of orgasm, confidence and connection grow. I truly believe peace is possible… if we all just came a little more often. This blog is my way of sharing what I know, what I’ve seen work, and what inspires me — so you can thrive in bed, in business, and beyond.

3 Reasons I Love What I Do

  • Turning awkward into awesome

    I live for those “ummm… what’s this for?” moments. There’s nothing better than breaking the ice, getting a laugh, and turning hesitation into curiosity. Watching that little lightbulb go off? Pure magic.

  • Playtime = worktime

    My “office supplies” aren’t exactly paper clips and staplers. I get to test, explore, and talk about products that make people smile, giggle, and maybe blush. If that’s not the dream job, I don’t know what is.

  • Confidence is contagious

    The glow someone has when they feel empowered, excited, and unapologetic about their pleasure? It’s addictive. And knowing I helped them get there—well, that’s why I keep showing up with a grin on my face.

Let's collaborate, learn more about each other, and share our passions. Whether you're seeking advice or just looking for a fun connection, let's make it happen!