About Me

I’m Alexandra—Sex Educator, Orgasm Guru, Empowerment Mentor, and your go-to guide for all things intimate, juicy, and joyfully taboo.

I started in this industry at 18, fell in love with it, and never looked back. From sales floor to management, tradeshow to B2B, I’ve done it all (and yes, I do know what that toy does). Now based in Montréal, I work with a badass team of women that makes magic happen—and this little site? It’s my personal passion project (very much a side thing I’m growing with love).

My spark started long before 18, though. I grew up watching Sue Johanson on Sex with Sue. I was only 9 or 10 years old when I first saw her, but her vibe made a lifelong mark on me. She made sex seem so natural, so normal, and so worthy of conversation. Sue gave me permission—before I even knew I’d need it—to lean into curiosity without shame. This little corner of the internet is, in many ways, my way of carrying that torch forward.

By day, I rep Bodispa B2B in Montréal and help bring Nobü Toys to life with a crew of badass bitches. By night (and let’s be real, all the in-betweens), this space is my playground—where education meets curiosity and everything is served with warmth, clarity, and a wink.

Here you’ll find handpicked faves, spicy bestsellers, and zero-filter/no-nonsense advice—served with a wink and maybe a giggle. Think of it as your one-stop shop for pleasure, knowledge, and giggles. Questions? Curiosities? Existential toy crises? I’m just a click away.

For my retailers: I am not your competition—I’m your ally. Bodispa B2B proudly houses 50+ trusted industry brands and wholesales coast-to-coast. If you want info, line sheets, or support, contact me and I’ll get you what you need. My goal is to help you sell smarter, train better, and serve your community with the best experience possible.

About Nobü: it’s our international house brand, built by an amazing team that truly cares. Our “Troublesome Trio” (yes—Canadian girls who never disappoint) do this out of love and obsession with quality—and we’re forever thankful for our boss’s investment in the vision. We build what we wish existed, test what we teach, and keep improving because you deserve products that actually deliver.

I want to grow with you—personally and professionally. There should be no competition in this industry, only collaboration and the best service possible. I’m not sure where this blog/web adventure will take me, but thank you for the support and for joining me on the ride. If you wish to collab, reach out. I love ideas and can happily talk about this stuff all day and night.

I also offer in-house and online toy parties—perfect for birthdays, bachelorettes, girls’ night out (men too!), team bonding, and more. I’m available for staff training, product knowledge sessions, and sexual wellness education. My goal? For everyone to have as many orgasms as possible—safely, joyfully, and on their own terms.

If you’re browsing, shop by collection to explore curated picks and discover what speaks to you. And if you’re here to learn, I’m pouring everything I know into guides, tips, and real-talk reviews so you can feel confident in your body and your choices.

Follow me, share the love, and let’s make the world a sexier, safer, and more empowered place—one orgasm at a time.

Alexandra :)